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The man who makes final journeys beautiful for hundreds of destitute

Coimbatore :

On Tuesday afternoon A Saleem is getting ready to collect the body of a septuagenarian man he has never met before, from the GH mortuary. He is working on getting the vehicle ready to perform his last rites at a burial ground nearby.

The 29-year-old is no priest, under-taker or mortuary van driver. He just believes that every dead person has the right to rest in peace and While most people probably believe the same, Saleem goes the extra mile to get ensures that dead people get a decent funeral. Saleem, through his organisation Jeevan Shanthy Trust, performs last rites for many unclaimed and unidentified bodies in the city every year. They have buried 154 bodies in the last 10 months.

About five to 10 people from the trust, formed seven years ago but registered two years ago, are at GH every day to collect bodies that are released after postmortems. “We always carry incense stick, candles and camphor, so that we can perform rights according to Hindu, Muslim and Christian customs before burying them,” says Saleem.

The bodies are usually buried at the Aathupaalam burial ground on Podanur Road. Saleem and the other members from the trust pool in money. for a garland and a white cloth to wrap the body.

“It is difficult to identify the religion of an unclaimed body, so unless there is some identification, we go with our instincts,” says another trust member.

The trust started this service seven years ago, when Saleem and his friends realised that bodies of relatives often become a burden for people from the economically weaker sections.

“There were so many people who would have come

from Trichy, Tirupur, Pollachi, Erode and other places who could not afford to pay for final rites, A mortuary van would charge a daily wage labourer a rent of 10,000 which is not affordable, ” says Saleem. “Then at crematoriums and burial grounds too, people would demand money for every little thing,” he says. “It was painful to see poor people, who are also emotionally devastated, being fleeced,” he adds. “We also realised that a lot bodies rot in the mortuary for days with no one coming to claim them,” he said.

The trust now has 50 members which primarily s of Saleem’s college mates and friends. They do not raise funds from the public or any NGOs. “We pool in money for everything right from the vehicle, to the fuel for the vehicles, to cloth, garlands, candles and incense sticks,” says Saleem.

The trust has managed to buy two vehicles — a maruti van and an ambulance, to run their service.

The trust also transports a body from GH to their houses or villages km away, allowing the family to perform the last rites. “We initially pooled in money to buy a Maruti van to transport unidentified and unclaimed dead bodies to the burial ground,” says Saleem. “But we also use the vehicle to transport a poor man’s body to his village even if it is 500 km away, so his family can perform the last rites,” he adds. “Around six of us pool in 500 each, fill fuel for 3,000 and take the body,” he says.

They rescue destitute people from the streets and pavements and admit them to the hospital. “Many are abandoned by their families after they tested positive for HIV. So we admit them to the GH, get the necessary tests done, collect and administer their medication. We also provide them with clothesWe also give them a bath and a plate to collect their food,” says Saleem.

Their services are so well-known that 108 ambulance drivers and the police notify them in cases of unidentified bodies or destitute people they rescue.

“We help them by filing FIRs for unclaimed bodies so that it makes their job easier. We have also seen them adopt many abandoned and destitute people from the street and admit them to the hospital,” said a police constable posted at GH.

source: http://www.timesofindia.indiatimes.com / The Times of India / Home> City> Coimbatore / by Pratiksha Ramkumar, TNN / July 07th, 2014

Heaven in a mouthful of channa

Jasbir Kaur Chahal from London underwent a rare surgery at MIOT Hospitals seen with her husband and Mallika Mohandas,Chairman,MIOT Hospital . / Photo: K. Pichumani / The Hindu
Jasbir Kaur Chahal from London underwent a rare surgery at MIOT Hospitals seen with her husband and Mallika Mohandas,Chairman,MIOT Hospital . / Photo: K. Pichumani / The Hindu

Londoner cured of acute spine condition after stint in MIOT hospitals

Jasbir Kaur Chahal had just gotten off the phone with her mother back in England. “Mum, do you know what I had to eat now?” she had asked her, full of beans. “What’s the worst thing for me? Channa! Yes, I ate channa!” she answered, in raptures over the chickpeas she had eaten for lunch.

Jasbir waits warily for her system to react violently to the chickpeas, but the good doctors here have told the 51-year-old from London that all will be well.

Jasbir had come to MIOT International Hospitals nearly doubled up in pain. She had a history of prolonged use of non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (painkillers) for a serious condition that affects the spine — ankylosing spondylitis. But that was not her only problem. It was suspected that drug-induced diaphragm disease was keeping her from putting her favourite food into her mouth. She’d been on a liquid and low roughage diet for several months.

While she was careful avoiding food she thought was not good for her, after a point of time, nearly every time she ate, she’d feel ill, have bouts of diarrhoea, vomiting, and a stomach that bloated after a meal. And then there was the crippling pain that made her prone and put her in hospital often. After three years of waiting for a diagnosis through a double-balloon enteroscopy, a fed-up Jasbir made for India, and MIOT.

“You should have taken a picture of her when we came here first. She was bent over, clutching her stomach in pain and was diagnosed with depression,” her husband Joginder Singh explains. The couple came here expecting to wait a fair bit, but within a week, the diagnosis had been made, and the surgery completed, to provide relief.

‘Unprecedented’

Doctors found multiple strictures, nine places where the small intestine had narrowed to the point that food would get blocked and then build up, causing the symptoms. “We’ve looked at the literature and it certainly seems the first such case reported in India,” says George M. Chandy, director, MIOT Advanced Centre for Gastrointestinal and Liver diseases.

He goes on to explain what they did medically: S. Arulprakash, the team’s therapeutic endoscopist, performed a double-balloon enteroscopy to study the bowel; the strictures were located, after which the surgeon — V.Baskaran, director, Minimal Access Surgery — took over, removed two feet of the small intestine which had nine narrowed ring-like structures.

After having her bowel reduced by two feet, Jasbir chirps excitedly: “I feel three feet taller already.”

She is thrilled the doctors rallied around her and treated her as a person, rather than a statistic. Her natural jolly self is back after years, so much so her husband says, “I came with one wife, and it looks like I’m leaving with another!”

source: http://www.thehindu.com / The Hindu / Home> News> Cities> Chennai / by Ramya Kannan / Chennai – July 05th, 2014

Lions’ share of eye donors in World Record

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Chennai :

An eye donation camp held here on Friday in connection with the birth anniversary of Helen Keller, has reportedly entered the Assist World Record with nearly a lakh pledging  to donate their eyes.

Lions Club International, which organised the eye donation awareness camp at Quaid-E-Millath Government College for Women, claimed that about a lakh people undertook the pledge during the day, making it the biggest such programme ever.

“The last record was 22,000, and we created history today to emerge on top according to Assist World Record,” said a proud G Manilal, Governor, Lions Club district 324-A8.

Most of the volunteers were students from institutions in the city like Stella Maris and MGR University among others.

“We have circulated forms to college students of whom many have registered. The rest are waiting for their parents’ approval. We are expecting the registration to cross one lakh,” added Manilal.

Each person who registered was given a smart card, which had important medical data about him/her, including the consent to donate eyes.

Justice P Jyotimani, member, National Green Tribunal, New Delhi, distributed the eye donation smart card, which was received by popular director-actor Thangar Bachan.

Dr KS Seetha Lakshmi, principal, Quaid-E- Millath Government College, and many eminent eye surgeons attended the camp.

source: http://www.newindianexpress.com / The New Indian Express / Home> Cities> Chennai  / by Express News Service  / June 30th, 2014

The legendary ‘Kadalaikaran’ of Ooty

Peanut vendor P.S. Gopalakrishnan on the Government Botanical Garden Road in Udhagamandalam. / Photo:M.Sathyamoorthy / The Hindu
Peanut vendor P.S. Gopalakrishnan on the Government Botanical Garden Road in Udhagamandalam. / Photo:M.Sathyamoorthy / The Hindu

His presence is not as conspicuous as his absence. That is Trichur Kilimangalam P.S. Gopalakrishnan, a septuagenarian, who along with his pushcart equipped with a stove, a hurricane lamp, a ladle, a pan and a stainless steel container is a familiar sight on the Government Botanical Garden road here.

Though his presence is taken for granted and people from all sections of the society here and many regular visitors are aware of the fact that he has been around for long, only a few know that it is now 50 years since he started wheeling a push cart with pea nuts. Though landmarks are aplenty in this vacation destination many tend to agree that the best known is Mr .Gopalakrishnan’s pushcart.

The landmark makes its appearance near the out gate of the Lawley Institute, a heritage club on Government Botanical Garden road everyday around 2 p.m. and remains there till late in the night monsoon rain or winter chillness notwithstanding.

Mr. Gopalakrishnan who is now about 72 has been pushing it between that place and his house or some place nearby almost everyday since 1964 selling roasted pea nuts. Ever since he started the business, he has stuck to the spot near the Lawley Institute. In the process very few among the large number of people who use the road fail to stop or slow down to exchange pleasantries with him or buy a packet of his peanuts.

The taste of his uniformly roasted (in hot sand) peanuts sold earlier in ‘potlams’ and now in packets has remained the same but the price has gone up over the years. Speaking to The Hindu the ‘kadalaikaran’ as he is popularly known said that a small ‘potlam’ which he had in the early days sold for ten paise started fetching fifteen paise in the early 1970s. A few years later 25 paise and 50 paise potlams were offered.

With coins becoming increasingly scarce he started selling Rs. 1 potlams. For sometime now small packets are being sold for Rs. 5 and slightly larger ones for Rs. 10. In a reminiscent mood he says that he dropped out of school after doing his Class V due to personal reasons and when he was around 20 years moved to Ooty in search of a livelihood.

Finding a ramshackle cart he had started selling peanuts. With perseverance enabling him to make ends meet, he got married in 1970.The couple has a daughter and two sons and all are married.

Stating “my worst experience was when I was attacked by a few stray ponies and my  cart caught fire in 1972”, he said that he escaped with minor injuries. Regretting that with age catching up he is finding it increasingly difficult to stick to his routine.

“The strain of standing in a single spot for 50 years is beginning to tell”. He added that he would be happy if his health permits him to continue his trade for at least another couple of years.

Having endeared himself to people of all ages by patiently answering questions about himself and his trade and listening to the personal problems of  his customers, many treat him as, ‘part of the family’. He cherishes a scarf thoughtfully bought for him from New York by a girl from the Lawrence School in Lovedale who has been eating his peanuts since the late 1980s. Many tourists particularly foreigners are intrigued and excited at the manner in which he roasts the peanuts and see in him a fine photo opportunity.

source: http://www.thehindu.com / The Hindu / Home> News> Cities> Coimbatore / by D. Radhakrishnan / Udhagamandalam – June 30th, 2014

Celebrating the act of goodness

Dr V Shantha, chairman, Cancer Institute, Adyar, inaugurating the emblem of the global project ‘7 billion acts of goodness’. Mayor Saidai Duraisamy is also seen
Dr V Shantha, chairman, Cancer Institute, Adyar, inaugurating the emblem of the global project ‘7 billion acts of goodness’. Mayor Saidai Duraisamy is also seen

Chennai :

The Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidyalaya, an organisation that imparts teaching and education on spiritual and moral values, launched ‘The Goodness Festival’ at Besant Nagar in the city on Friday. The festival is a three-day programme that aims at creating awareness about the values of self, god and acts of goodness through several lectures, seminars and workshops.

The launch ceremony had an introduction to the global project undertaken by Brahma Kumaris titled ‘7 billion acts if goodness’, which was intended to encourage everyone to perform at least one act of goodness a day.

Mayor Saidai Duraisamy, who inaugurated the event, said that the primary concern in life was good health, and that one must inculcate good eating habits to enjoy a healthy life. “A healthy person is capable of performing good actions. Only a person who eats healthy can think healthy and consequently perform good actions,” he said.

T S Krishnamurthy, former Chief Election Commissioner of India, complemented the efforts taken by Brahma Kumaris in the field of improving the quality of lives. “I sincerely hope that festivals such as these contribute to the welfare of humanity,” he said.

The investiture was followed by a lecture on the topic, ‘Women – The ICON of power’. Speaking on the topic, Dr V Shantha, Magsaysay awardee and chairman of the Cancer Institute said, “We have been talking about empowerment of women with reference to the lawful dues a woman must acquire. However, empowerment comes from what a woman is capable of. Every right has its responsibility and therefore, education and awareness are extremely important for one to understand what women empowerment is all about.”

“India is ranked 118 among 177 nations, as far as women emancipation is concerned. That’s the reason we are still unable to say confidently that we have empowered the women.” She also added that female infanticide continued to be a problem in North India, and that the lack of independence for women, zero decision making power in the family and the traditional patriarchal mindset posed serious threats to the idea of women empowerment.

Padma Venkataraman, vice president of Women’s Indian Association, said that the concept of empowering women should not be construed as a war between men and women, but a movement that aimed at gender equality.  Nanditha Krishna, director, the CP Ramaswami Aiyar Foundation, said that first step in being good could be by uttering good and kind words.  The second day of the event, which will be held on Saturday, will see competitions among school students on various topics and a session for school teachers and college professors.

The third and final day of the event will provide special attention to senior citizens, who reside at old age homes, accompanied by lectures by renowned personalities.

source: http://www.newindianexpress.com / The New Indian Express / Home> Cities> Chennai  / by Express News Service  / June 28th, 2014

I didn’t realize it was a big achievement

His modest workshop in the sleepy locality of KNG Pudur in Coimbatore stocks a few machines that spit out the revolutionary low-cost sanitary napkins. Menstrual man Arunachalam Muruganantham, perched on his chair, goes on with his business even as he sorts out his visa applications to the different countries he has been invited to deliver keynote seminars. “All these visits are by invitation only. I had never stepped out of the city before. Today, I rub shoulders with biggies across the world,” says Muruganantham, son of a poor handloom weaver.

A Muruganantham
A Muruganantham

The social entrepreneur has found a place in the list of 100 Most Influential People in the World by an international magazine, that too with the likes of Narendra Modi, Arvind Kejriwal and Arundhati Roy. “When I got the news, I didn’t realize it was a big achievement. It was my wife, who told me that it was a feat I should be proud of.”

The tryst with the production of low-cost sanitary napkin producing machines began when Muruganantham saw his wife using a rag cloth during those days of the month. “I wouldn’t even clean my scooter with that. That’s when it struck me that most of the women, especially in the rural areas are not aware of sanitary napkins and those who did, couldn’t afford it. I studied women across the country and I was shocked to find out that only 5 per cent of them (excluding the metros) were aware of sanitary napkins. Women in rural households used saw dust, dry leaves and ashes on those days. When I showed these slides abroad, the audience was stunned. I started working on the machines with utmost care. No one volunteered to be my subject and when I tested these pads on myself, I was called a pervert. It was journey where I had to battle many ordeals.”

Muruganantham’s hard work bore fruits when his work was approved by IIT Madras in 2009. “It was a strange ambiance there. Everyone out there was conversing in English and I didn’t understand a word of what they were saying. I thought I would never fit into the corporate set up. But when my design was finally approved, I was glad that I was not well- educated as I didn’t have learn about ‘unnecessary’ things. I then supplied the machine to women self help groups, who now not only make a living out of it, but also take care of their ‘monthly’ issues,” says Muruganantham, who strongly believe in the cause of women empowerment. “We keep discussing nuclear power and other issues but we should spare a thought to the basic needs of our women. Now that I am on a mission to spread awareness about menstrual hygiene and help women, I would be glad even if I am able to raise the awareness level to 10 per cent.”

He also emphasizes that entrepreneurship is the need of the hour. “Every year, in our country, we churn out more job seekers rather than job creators. We have to look at new business models, identify a problem and work on a solution for the same. Today, the machines I have created have provided employment to many women in the rural areas across the country. Why can’t youngsters follow suit?”

As the conversation veers to his future plans, Muruganantham says, “I am now working on a model of suspended agriculture that is growing plants without water and sand,” he says as shows us a plant hanging from the ceiling of his factory. “This is to help the landless farmers,” he says with a grin.

source: http://www.timesofindia.indiatimes.com / The Times of India / Home> City> Coimbatore / by P. Sangeetha, TNN / june 07th, 2014

Disability no deterrent to this achiever

 

K. Manoj Kumar (right) at work with his team members in his mushroom farm near Kadachanenthal in Madurai./ Photo: R. Ashok / The Hindu
K. Manoj Kumar (right) at work with his team members in his mushroom farm near Kadachanenthal in Madurai./ Photo: R. Ashok / The Hindu

Besides running mushroom farms, Manoj imparts training too

K. Manoj Kumar, who was born with hearing and speech impairment, never let his disability deter his dreams and success.

A B.Com graduate with gold medal from St. Louis College for Hearing Impaired in Chennai, Mr. Manoj’s entry into the league of achievers is motivating.

Seven years ago, Mr. Manoj and his wife M. Krishna Kumari, a microbiology graduate, started a small scale mushroom farm at Pudhupatti.

Ever since, there is no looking back for the couple, who run ‘Udayan Mushroom Farm,’ which now exports oyster and milky mushroom to Kerala, Hyderabad and Maharashtra.

“We had to shift our farm to Kadachanenthal because the environment at Pudhupatti was not conducive. Initially, when we started farming, we found it difficult to sell even one kilogram of mushroom,” says Mrs. Krishna Kumari.

Today, Mr. Manoj’s enterprise has 25 small scale mushroom farms functioning under it and he has trained around 500 persons in the past two years on mushroom cultivation.

His team of support staff in the farm include three hearing impaired persons and four persons who underwent rehabilitation for mental disabilities.

“I started my own mushroom farm inspired by their success and with the help of their encouragement. The business is quite profitable,” says Shantha Devi Akilan Davis, an elderly neighbour of the couple. She is also involved in the training activities undertaken by Udayan Farm.

J. S. Gopinath, who underwent rehabilitation at M.S. Chellamuthu Trust and Research Foundation, says he enjoys working under Mr. Manoj.

“He has taught me how to cultivate mushrooms. I also learned to rear ornamental fish,” he says. Mr. Manoj also rears “fighter fish” for his father’s farm.

According to P. Moorthy, co-ordinator of the training programme, a large number of differently abled people have benefitted from the training.

“There is a high demand for mushrooms in the market. Most of the people who underwent training here had physical disabilities or were from an economically backward background. This has helped them sustain their livelihood,” Mr. Moorthy says.

The simple person that he is, Mr. Manoj attributes his success to his wife, who has been his major support all along.

“People with hearing impairment generally tend to depend on others for income. We wanted to be self-reliant. We are also happy to support others in need,” signs off Mrs. Krishna Kumari.

source: http://www.thehindu.com / The Hindu / Home> News> Cities> Madurai / by  M. Vandhana / Madurai – June 17th, 2014

Chennai salutes martyred officer

Family members of Major Mukund Varadharajan at the function on Wednesday./ Photo: R Ravindran / The Hindu
Family members of Major Mukund Varadharajan at the function on Wednesday./ Photo: R Ravindran / The Hindu

At a function, a host of distinguished personalities paid their respects to Major Mukund Varadharajan

The Tapovan Hall at the Chinmaya heritage centre on Tuesday evening witnessed the city paying respects to a son who sacrificed his life safeguarding the boundaries of India.

Major Mukund Varadharajan (32) of the 44 Rashtriya Rifles was killed in an encounter with terrorists in Shopian district, South Kashmir, on April 25. Mukund, who hailed from Chennai, was cremated with full state honours.

A large section of people including former civil servants, military personnel, judges and other noted personalities gathered in the evening to commemorate the brave soldier from the city and honour his contributions to the country. Also present were his family members, including his young daughter.

Gita Menon of Chinmaya Mission began the tribute, saying “We bow to the proud son of India.” She went on to add that soldiers provide a sense of security to every citizen in the country.

Nonagenarian V. Kalyanam, who was the personal secretary of Mahatma Gandhi, was also present during the evening. In his brief words to the Major’s family, who were in the front row, he said the officer was a brave man and wished the family well.

“Brave men like Mukund give their today for our tomorrow,” stated retired Colonel David Devasahayam from the Indian Army, to the applause of those gathered in the auditorium. Retired IAS officers M G Devasahayam and Naresh Gupta also paid tributes.

Swami Mitrananda, acharya of Chinmaya Mission, Chennai, honoured the late Major’s family members with a memento towards the end of the evening which concluded with a mime titled Paapa by theatre artist Krishna Ganapathi. A video recording of tributes by personalities who couldn’t attend was also screened.

source: http://www.thehindu.com / The Hindu / Home> News> Cities> Chennai> Events / by Staff Reporter / Chennai – May 21st, 2014

Free Napkin Project Gets a Big Pack of Help from Women Prisoners in Vellore

The Special Prison for Women in Vellore | Express
The Special Prison for Women in Vellore | Express

Vellore :

Inmates of the Special Prison for Women in Vellore, apart from serving their jail term, are also receiving hands-on training in manufacturing sanitary napkins, which would be  disbursed to girl students of the government schools under the State government’s Free Sanitary Napkin Project to promote the health of adolescent girls.

The napkin manufacturing unit was established on March 28, with financial aid from the Confederation of Indian Industry and TITAN Limited that supply raw materials to the prison unit. Additional Director General of Police (Prisons), J K Tripathy said that the napkin manufacturing units were also functioning in the Central prisons in Puzhal in Chennai and Tiruchy.

Through this initiative the government aims to promote the health of adolescent girls and ensure reproductive health of women by providing napkins to the government schools, government hospitals and Primary Health Centres in the State.

Inmates serving life term have been engaged in production of napkins. A total of 58 life convicts are engaged in this project. “All the life convicts are trained in manufacturing napkins. A total of 15 life convicts have been engaged in manufacturing napkins for six hours from 8 am to 11.30 am and 1.30 pm to 4 pm on a daily basis,” Superintendent of the Prison, R Rajalakshmi told Express.

This one-month-old napkin manufacturing unit  produces 1,500 sanitary napkins per day, said the official. “We will improve the productivity in the coming days. We also ensure high quality and hygiene as the products are disbursed only after sterilszation,” said the superintendent.

Until four years ago the inmates in the Central prison had been manufacturing handmade napkin but its production came to a halt recently after the contractors failed to supply raw materials, particularly cotton, for manufacturing napkins from Mumbai. “Four years back we had been supplying the handmade napkins to two Central prisons for women and 11 sub-jails for women in the State. Now, again we have started production of the napkins,” said another official.

source: http://www.newindianexpress.com / The New Indian Express / Home> States> Tamil Nadu / by J. Shanmugha Sundaram / May 26th, 2014

A dishwasher’s daughter could soon be an IITian

Image: Fathima Shabana with her mother Bahira Begum Photographs: Sreeram Selvaraj
Image: Fathima Shabana with her mother Bahira Begum
Photographs: Sreeram Selvaraj

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Meet Fathima Shabana who’s cleared her JEE (Main) and wants to study computer science from an IIT.

It has been a week since the Joint Entrance Examination (JEE) results were released, and yet, the smile on 17-year-old Fathima Shabana’s face has still not diminished. After all, she has been working hard for the last four years; and she has just cleared the JEE (Main). This means that she has already made the grade to go to an Indian Institute of Information Technology (IIIT) or National Institute of Technology (NIT) or state engineering institutions that will offer seats on the basis of JEE (Main) merit list like the Anna University in Tamil Nadu.

If she manages to make it through to the JEE (Advanced) examination on the May 25, she might well make it into an IIT!

Fathima’s is no mean achievement, especially when you look at her background. Her father, Shahul Hameed, dropped out after Class VIII and her mother didn’t continue past primary school.

Ever since he made his way to Chennai from Siruthondanalloor village in Thoothukudi district in search of a job almost two decades ago, Shahul Hameed has been washing dishes and serving food at a pushcart eatery.

His day starts very early in the morning, before the city wakes up, and ends only by 10 at night. For all of this, he takes home Rs 300 a day.

Ever since he was told of his daughter’s phenomenal achievement, he has been a happy and proud man. “My daughter has made me very proud. She was always an extremely hard working child, and I always knew that she would pass all of her exams with flying colours. I could not afford to send her to a private school. So, I sent her and my son to a corporation school so that we didn’t have to pay for their fees and textbooks.”

“It has always been her dream to be an engineer. But I earn only Rs 300 a day; I do not have the wherewithal to send her to an engineering college. I grow distressed just thinking of shattering my daughter’s dreams. But I am sure some good soul will come forward to help her pursue her dreams,” he says, while making dosas for a customer.

Image: Fathima Shabana's father Shahul Hameed sells dosas and earns Rs 300 a day. Photographs: Sreeram Selvaraj
Image: Fathima Shabana’s father Shahul Hameed sells dosas and earns Rs 300 a day.
Photographs: Sreeram Selvaraj

Her equally proud mother, Bahira Begum, said, “Neither me nor my husband could study much. But we made sure that our children studied, and studied well at that. We thought we should give them an education even if we had to borrow money to do so. We first sent Fathima to a private school, but we soon found that we could not afford to educate our children in a private school. We had to then move both of them to a corporation school. But in spite of that, not once did I have to tell Fathima to sit down and study. She was always happier among her books than she was playing with other girls of her age. She would sit at home and write something all the time.

In fact, I would tell her to take a break and go out and play. But she never would.”

Bahira remembers that her daughter never asked her for a new dress, or expressed her desire to go watch a movie. “She was not interested in anything but her studies. Even if we called her to go out, she would not come. Even as a small child, she was obsessed with her education and always wanted to come first in class.”

“God has been kind to me. It was because of God’s gift that I was able to focus on my education. I love Mathematics and can solve mathematical problems for hours together without feeling bored,” Fathima said.

Image: Fathima Shabana Photographs: Sreeram Selvaraj
Image: Fathima Shabana
Photographs: Sreeram Selvaraj

When she was in Class IX, a private IIT-JEE coaching institute came to her school to select good students and offer them free coaching. She was among the nine students selected after a screening test.

When she told her mother that she wanted to attend JEE coaching classes, she told her that they could not afford to send her to a tuition class. But her school head master was insistent.

“He came home and convinced us that Fathima would never get such an opportunity in her life, and that we should not deny it to her. We had to agree to send her to coaching classes.”

As the institute was far away from her home, it was past 9 in the evening by the time she got back home. “So, I would study until midnight and get up by 6 in the morning to do all the home work.”

So focussed was she on her studies that from first standard onwards, she was either first or second in school.

After scoring 83 per cent in her Class X Board exams, she went back to the same school and continued her preparation for the JEE. “I was happy after I finished the JEE (Main) exam. I knew I did well, especially my Mathematics paper. Yes, I was expecting a good result, but when I finally saw online that I had cleared the Main exam, I couldn’t believe it. I called my father and conveyed the good news to him. He was overjoyed, as was my mother.”

Image: Fathima Shabana with her mother Bahira Begum and brother Arshad Saliq Photographs: Sreeram Selvaraj
Image: Fathima Shabana with her mother Bahira Begum and brother Arshad Saliq
Photographs: Sreeram Selvaraj

Bahira also was confident of her daughter getting in. “I know nothing about colleges. I only knew that she would get admission in to a very good college somewhere in India because of how hard she worked. However, in our community, we do not send our girls to far-off places. So, I hope she gets admitted to an engineering college in Chennai.”

Whenever Fathima expressed her desire to become an engineer, her mother would tell her not to dream so high because of the financial constraints they faced in the family.

Now that she is going to write the JEE (Advanced) exam on May 25, her dream is to get selected to study Computer Science at an IIT. “I love computer science. I do not have a computer at home, but we have one in our school that we get to operate. I enjoy working on the computer.”

Fathima’s brother, Arshad Saliq, who studies in Class IX, has someone to look up to now. “I also top my class, but now, I want to emulate my sister. I want to study in an IIT.”

Fathima’s dream is “to get a good job so that my father will not have to struggle as hard to make ends meet.”

The family strongly believes that it was all because of the blessings of God that Fathima could achieve something that her parents could never even dream of.

“When we thank God, we also pray that He would show us a way to give Fathima what she wants. When we let her study, not even in our wildest dreams did we think that she would make both of us, practically illiterate as we are, so proud,” said Bahira on a parting note.

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